It's Who You Know, And Who You Blow
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Carolina Muscle's Fantastic Hub
- what you deserve
I had someone say something very interesting to me yesterday. This person, a Doctor of some wealth, was working out next to me, and we got to talking.... He was explaining his viewpoint that he pays too...
Carolina Muscle said a mouthful
For the past month or so I've been on a bandwagon about money, elitism, thieving corporate boards of directors, wayward politicians, and the just plain teeming arrogance from the top looking down at the rest of the population as bottom-feeding, low-life, underperforming, unskilled, and just plain worthless piles with their hands out, to put it very bluntly. I've tried to make my point this way and that way, and every way but Sunday. And really, in all I've only probably served to overcomplicate the matter at hand.
I've written hubs like, "Corporate Boards Are Glorified Thiefs," and yes, I know that the word "theifs" is misspelled (hey, even an unskilled political non-elite opinion guy like me can be a sucker for a little keyword stuff). Another one I called, "The Jobless Are Not Lazy," and another one is titled, "Another Example Of An Overpaid CEO," which is on point about the whole concept of CEO pay, and severence packages which are akin to winning the lottery, but focuses on the exorbitant severence package former HP CEO Mark Hurd enjoyed after resigning his post due to the discovery of falsified expense reports to cover up an affair he had supposedly with a female contractor, and an accusation of sexual harrassment.
Speaking of mouthfuls, but I digress.
The point of that last hub was basically that here was a guy who got a lot of money for doing a lot of crap he wasn't supposed to do. And he's by far the only one.
See, that's what gotten under my skin so darned bad. My panties (I actually wear Made in the USA Fruit of the Looms) are really in a terrible bunch because we're at this place that we've gotten to where everyone at the bottom is simply an underachiever and should simply be someone thankful that a few scraps fall his way now and again thanks to all of the genious, and hard work of the guys at the top who, according to all accounts, are the ones who really make it all happen.
After all, all of these guys are educated. They've gone to college to learn their valuable stuff to make the world go round. These are men of ideas, and damnit all, they deserve to have everything and then some...You guys at the bottom need simply take notes, and take notice.
But there was that word that got it all done for me. Deserve. It was the one word that I was trying to get at all along. It just never made it past my tongue, and certainly never made it past my keyboard and onto the screen in any of my hubs. In reality, looking back, I kind of feel like an idiot actually. God, it's so simple. And I didn't think of it. Carolina Muscle did. Another hubber. Not me. In a word he got it done. In a word he had summed up everything I had been trying to get across. After I read it, I thought—with some exaggeration of course—that I had quite literally found the Holy Grail in all of Its glory.
I'm still pounding my head into the wall over it, so thank you very much Mr. Muscle. Whatever company makes Tylenol, invest in it. I'm taking it by the truckload with all this head-banging. Oh yes, and drywall. Invest in that too.
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When you're a conservative such as I am, it's really tough to stand up and be for the little guy. Really tough. Because the fact of the matter is, as soon as you start to say, "Hey, the guy on the bottom needs a little recognition for his contribution too," all of sudden the accusations begin to fly.
Socialist! Redistributor of wealth! Robin Hood!
Man, let me tell you something. That cannot be farther from the truth. First off, I don't have anything whatsoever against the rich. I like the rich. I want to be rich, and certainly should I ever become rich, I certainly don't ever want to be against myself.
I'll even tell you this; when I see a guy drive past me on the highway in a BMW or a Mercedes (which I don't find all that impressive actually, I personally like Lincolns) I don't get mad. I want to know what it is that got the guy behind the wheel of such an expensive machine.
Because here's what I generally think. Hard work pays. That's the motto I try to live my life by. Work hard, make a contribution, and it will pay off one way or another. Nothing in life should be a cakewalk. Nothing should be handed down on a silver platter. Everything should be hard. Everything should be a challenge, and if you get somewhere and you acheive something, by God you should have a trail of blood, sweat, and tears in a long path behind you...
And accolades and fortunes ahead of you.
Hard work. Yes. That's exactly what success is supposed to be made of. Grit and conviction. And I'm thinking, some of those guys who are driving those BMW's and Mercedes just have to be one of those guys. One of those guys who worked hard, who busted his ass, who got it all done, and who took on the challenge like a matador takes on a bull—with grit, conviction, and a bit of risk.
If not, then well...busting my ass is for moot. If not, any of us busting our asses is for moot. If not, then the idea that hard work pays is a great big lie, and I simply don't want to believe that. I need to not believe that.
A little bit of reality
I'm not going to sit here and say that anyone who is at the top, or who has a fancy degree on their wall, is lazy. I won't say that at all. I will say, though, that too often many of these guys simply put themselves on a pedestal that really has no business being beneath their feet. They all think, irregardless of how they arrived where they are, that they have earned their position. They have earned their right to the big prize. They believe wholeheartedly that they deserve every bit of what they have, and that everyman deserves virtually nothing except to be thankful for what the top trickles down.
It was something that a doctor had said to Carolina Muscle at a gym, as they worked out alongside one another, that got him rolling things around in his head. As Carolina put it, "He was explaining his viewpoint that he pays too much in taxes.... and that the poor and indigent belong that way, they deserve no help from society—or more importantly, him. He says he worked hard to get where he is, and that " they should too.""
Hard work. He worked hard to get where he is, and they should too.
I think that statement could be more correctly read another way. "It's who you know, and who you blow that got me where I am, and the fact is that the poor and indigent simply don't know anyone important enough to blow."
I'm not suggesting that's always the case. But how many times have I run into guys in the factories I've worked, whose daddy was a supervisor in one department, who was quickly moved up the ranks? One guy's daddy happened to be a vice president of the company, and his son in a few very short years went from an hourly employee to one making six figures at the corporate headquarters. I know of one guy who runs a software consulting firm whose son is very young, who drives nice cars and lives in a huge house. He, of course, works for daddy. And while he thinks he's an achiever, the reality is that he is nor more than a receiver. A recipient of his father's earned success. A benefactor of his father's hard work.
In his own eyes, and in his view of the world, however. He deserves his place in the world. He deserves his position, and his accolades, and all of the goodies that come with that.
The reality is that he, and those guys I ran into in those factories never knew the reality of hard work a day of their lives. They perceive their efforts as hard work. They perceive their successes as having been as a result of proving themselves to their daddy's to get the accolades—but had their daddy's not been who they were, they'd likely have been down in the trenches with the rest of us, really busting tail and going at things the hard way.
No fancy cars. No fancy houses. No fancy degrees. At least, not until they had performed the hard work to get them to those ends on their own.
The bottom line
I think that at the end of the day if everyone has an equal opportunity, then we should all be like runners on a track. We all start at the same exact place before the gun goes off and the fastest runners come in first, second, and third, based on their real speed and their real ability. If some runners are too slow they come in last. But if they do come in last, they work hard to become faster, and they want to, because they know what the value of the prize is. They know what the effort will bring. And they want to be like the guy with the trophy because they know he got it for real effort, and real acheivement, and real hard work—and that makes their hard work worthwhile. It makes the concept of hard work the real basis for success. It makes the faster runner's reality ever being the slower runner's reality something tangible.
That's the gist of what I'm talking about. I'm not getting down on the rich. I'm just asking some of them, if had they not known someone, or had a three or four pace start on the track when the gun went off, would they be rich at the finish line before me? How much of what you have achieved is as a result of hard work, and how much was as a result of who you know and who you blow?
And as for us down here? I wonder how much more respect we would have for the guys at the top if we knew that they started on the bottom just like we did? And how much more respect and appreciation would the guys at the top have for the enormous hard work and effort that goes into every day of everyman if they weren't immediately thrust upward into their positioning?
The bottom line is that not everyone deserves everything they have, or do not have. Some of the rich do not deserve to have their money, and certainly if that's true, then neither do some of the poor deserve not to have it. What everyone does deserve, is the real opportunity. I'm not so sure we are exactly there, and the opportunities are getting much harder to truly get at.
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Jim,
I feel your pain. It's too bad we all can't be born Rockerfellers, but we can't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They say 20% of the population has 80% of the wealth, and even if we distributed evenly among all people, it would only be a short time before the 20% had regained the 80%.
It is not only the case in the USA but in England too. I will be writing a hub about the same principle but about England. It does makes my blood boil too.
Many of us know children of the wealthy who will never contribute to our society in any way other than putting some of their parents money back into circulation. but even then it goes to other wealthy people for expensive items sold by other wealthy folks. Just saying!
Aperson is a person bo matter what their wealth. Its the heart of that person and his/her actions that count.
No matter what America is still the land of opportunity. I believe the opportunities are shrinking but I don't think it's a fatal condition. Regardless of the inequities I still wouldn't have it any other way.
We are sort of ambiguous about wealth.The president lectures about fat cats, but he himself is wealth. We loved the Kennedys, we vote rich politicians into office time after time.
This is a very thoughtful and thought-provoking hub. For myself, I am a teacher becasue of choices I made, and decisions I made in order to assure I would/could complete college. Since I teach Spanish---I know, strange from me!!--I am in demand in my profession. My brothers are both doctors, but they decided to pursue this a bit later than most, and they will be paying back student loans until they are into their 70's. Now, as for those at the bottom. As I said, I am a public school teacher, and many of the folks with few prospects are there because their parents do not parent and they personally know NOBODY---other than teachers, and we don't count in their minds--who has gone to college and WORKED to achieve. All the students in my classes have the very same opportunity to learn and excel, but not too many of them are willing to do the actual WORK in order to achieve. God forbid they decide the class is "hard" because that is just the excuse they need to stop trying and say they are just no smart enough. I am very resentful of able-bodied folks of sound mind who are penniless and hopeless because they freely CHOOSE to not work. As an educator, I make enough to help support my family, but I am not well-enough off to help the whole world. After I graduated from college, I had to pay back my student loans for five or so years before I was finished with them!!
“Power corrupts, and absolute power, corrupts absolutely.” There never was a guarantee for meritocracy always to remain so.
strong article Springboard! yes some thing has gone wrong with the basic decency which was there in democratic set up.
Top guys in politics, corporate sector and main stream news and media have now nexus and strong ties. There seems to be a feeling yes we do this but we can get away with it. A small dent in our image about integrity, decency does not matter. We are smarter than others because we do not worry about such minor irritants.
But at the same time I agree with breakfastpop also. I also have confidence in countries, I live in generally (USA and India). There are ways to correct it. I hope it happens soon.
Great thoughts springboard. What you are alluding to (whether you realize it or not) is the increasing divide between the wealthy working and the poor working.
I have some date from 2007 but it says that the average CEO makes 364 times the amount their average worker makes.
Are they worth that much? Most of the CEO's on wall street bankrupted their companies and would have crashed out of business if it wasn't for Bush's Financial bailout. Now they rewarded themselves with huge bonuses...
Can we legislate our way out of the problem? Probably not, but we do need a few rules to allow shareholders again to vote directly on executive compensation.
Pop is right, this is the land of opportunity but allowing corporations to essentially write their own regs over the last 10 years this has led to a further increase in the great divide.
Ask yourself this, how can BP have 760+ OSHA fines and still be allowed to operate? This number becomes even more alarming when you realize the next closest company in their industry has 8 violations.
Warren Buffet has called for CEO compensation to be tied to share price. If that were the case, Carly Fiorina would not be running in the senate as she wouldn't have received the hundreds of millions of dollars she did running HP into the ground.
I ranked you "awesome" on this one. I rarely give anyone an "awesome" rank.
I thought this whole thing read well, and I couldn't agree any more with the content.
The "working for Dad" theme reminded me of the million and one stories that I should be writing about my days at the Dallas Independent School District-where my Dad wound up as being my ultimate boss, for a while.
It boils down to lack of character, not money.
We cannot change where we start, only where we end up.
It stinks that those who work the hardest don't make the most money. My dad has worked his butt off for years in the oilfield and we barely scraped by. Growing up, I saw him work and work and work and never seemed to get that much ahead - all he got was older. But as luck would have it or maybe it's God's provision, they are now drilling oil on some of my dad's land. Someone told him that he might strike it rich. Dad's response - after watching his kids all get married and having 8 grandchildren - I already am rich. I highly doubt some of these millionaire CEOs would have the same attitude.
Springboard, there is nothing wrong with a little compassion for those who are struggling to just make it in this world. Nor is there anything wrong with being angry at those at the top who got there by hook or by crook.
Remember Jesus did say; that the poor will be with us always,what ever we do for the least we do for him, that we should love our neighbors as ourselves and that it was easier for a rich man to pass through the eye of a needle than to get into heaven. They were right on then and they are right on now.
Wow, excellent rant Springboard. A college education for everyone would be a giant step toward an even starting point in the race.
Food for thought. I have a more optimistic point of view but respect what you are saying.
hahaha... you caught me off guard here...
you are right on the money about opportunity!!!
.... and thanks for the mention! :-)
Hear - hear... I am with you all the way.
My hubby works for a man/company that has his sons working for him, for 1 solid year, one of the the sons who felt some entitlement to his fathers position, just about run the company into the ground. He caused people to quit and go elsewhere, he was called in a couple of times and given a 'good' talking to, but nothing else. FINALLY after the 30th 'senior' person quit (my husband is also a senior person, and was on the verge of looking for other employment)he was supposedly fired, in actuality he was transferred to a menial position where he could do no more damage, but still receives his same pay.
This is just 1 instance of knowing the right people in the working world. There are countless others. Great Hub!
Yea oh I heard that and what about the boss who takes credit for everyone elses great ideas, hard work and problem solving. The who you know group are working way up the money ladder off the sweat of the good old common smart sense of others. I tell ya!
Its not how fast you move but how quick you think.I have nothing against the rich because my mother was rich and I was raised to be rich if you can understand that.But anyway my parents died young and I really do not know what happened to the money that they had,all I know is I didn't get it.My grand parents ended up raising me and they wasn't rich but they wasn't poor either I geuss you can say they was middle class.The life you live is really all abouty what you really want in life,a lot of people say they want this and that but they really don't because if you want something you will get it.Take me for example I was raised as a rich kid I know how it feels to be a rich kid and yes I enjoyed it,but as a young man (I'm 40 now) I really was not to concerned about being rich.I was satisfied with having a good paying nine to five and I was looking forward to paying my dues and working until I was sixty five and then retiring playing with my grand kids and going fishing or watching matlock everyday.I was OK with that.Then around 2004 or 2005 everything changed my line of work (textiles) begin to vanish mills closing down and all that I moved on to other light industrial jobs and they too was vanishing left and right.Enter the end of 2006 and the beginning of 2007 I am on unemployment and the only jobs that I can get are temporary.I have been on and off unemployment for nearly five years the jobs that I run across are temporary and usually last from six months to a year and it is over and back on unemployment I go I have lost everything behind this recession working harder for no benefits and less pay and no job security standing in line with half of my city trying to get a job but there are none.All this drama that has been going on in washington and all over the news with this tea party crap and all the damn lies that these so called republicans are feeding to the american public makes me sick to my stomach and what is even worse is the people that believe them.It is a smoke screen keep the masses running around like chickens with their heads cut off and keep them at each other throats by race baiting and what ever else works while they carve up the american pie and and hand bigger and bigger slices to their rich sugar daddies.It is called DIVIDE AND CONQUER it is the oldest trick in the book and all of us average everyday people are caught up in this bullcrap.All of this has set me on a path of self employment,because to be totally honest if you are working for someone else it will not last forever you can believe that.Unless you work for the government or in the health field,anything else and you are really playing craps with your financial future and that is the truth,with nafta,globalisation and the market (which is really stock brokers and Bankers) running our economy from behind the scenes like puppet masters it is a dog eat dog world right now and for here on out.If you have any ideas running around your head on how you can generate your on cashflow it will be in your best interest to run with it.The republicans have sold us out (along with their souls) to corporate america.Think I'm lying? watch the news and watch C-Span and see exactly what the republicans are fighting for,not me and damn for sure not you it does not matter if you are conservative are democrat the Republicans are out to help only the rich,if you can't see that then god help us all because our land of oppurtunity it turning into a cast system pretty soon the oppurtunity will be gone and we only have to classes in america the very rich and powerful and the very poor and desperate.
There are people at the bottom that have unlimited potential... like me.Sometimes it takes something completey crazy and unjust to wake up certain people....All this bullcrap that is going on has awakened a lot of sleeping giants mark my words there is a wave of pissed off entrepeneurs coming that is going to change the financial landscape from the bottom up I know because I am one of them and I have met plenty of them standing in the unemployment line alliances are forming and people are pissed and have lost faith in the economy as well as all of washington especially the Republicans the political and financial landscape is ripping the country in half it is also uniting and creating teams of new business men and women that are hellbent on absolute success.In the next ten years you are about to witness a tsunami of small businesses sweeping the united states...know this as a certain truth.
Great article. It really boils down to value systems. Massive amounts of data are thrust upon us daily telling us what is valuable... a nice house, car, a pretty face, how we perform in bed, etc... We the People mentality has evolved into Me vs The World as we try to accumulate or maintain our valuable stuff. This is a time tested tactic, separate and conquer, keep them pacified dealing with petty, self indulgences while the upper 1% accumulates all the wealth through taxes and over pricing. Evolution is a very slow process and as "bill yon" said the sleeping giants will emerge. Thanks to the internet folks are getting informed and beginning to see the big picture... and that elephant in the room. When new sources of energy become affordable what will the oil giants do, when technology becomes available to the little guy and he can create the same thing the giant company does but at a lower cost... Knowledge is valuable and soon everyone will have access. Not sure if that would create a global We the People mentality... perhaps if we were attacked by aliens...
Hy Springboard, you really have put a great hub right here and the comments prove it. There is a lot to be said for the way the system is so unfair and too much money and bonuses end up in the pockets of the rich and undeserving. The way money gets wasted is sheer lunacy. There are so many ways the money could be put to good use. Great hub! Thanks!
God Bless You. God willing you will reach a ripe old age someday. When you do,not too much will matter anymore, just getting your messages accross. Nice hub, and I hope you become comfortably well off someday. You sure nuff deserve it, and so do a lot of other folks.
I really do think that the economic growing gap between the nuevo Rockefeller and the working average American, blue or white collar, is the culmination of someone's goal somewhere, and I just hate to be paranoid, but there it is, I think the Oz of our world wants two classes only, the have and have it alls, and the rest of us. . . that will need old Uncle Sam -- whether well educated or not, whether they bleed hard work for their dreams or not, and I do hate to be that distrustful, don't wish to live so distrustful. But . . .
But today, President Obama, fairly well shot the bird at all of us. The entire business world waited with baited breath for his words for quite a while. They were worthless. He spent more time making sure his mike was working and his teleprompter was working than he did on addressing the failing economy of this country -- it was all excellent finger-pointing tomfoolery, IMO, and shame on him, just shame on him.
... "Sigh Of Relief" Thank God someone who actually has a good point for once. So True "Who you know and who you blow". I've worked in companies where people who bust their ass get nothing for it and the ones who are lazy and weave in and out of doing work and absolutely do nothing, kiss ass, suck up, and suck Di*k basically are the ones who climb any company ladder, get the raises and walk home happy at the end of the day.
If I had a dollar for every time I saw this situation. Awesome Hub I love it, wish to see many more from you.
-DD
All your points are so true. But the world is funny about stuff sometimes. People could become celebrities simply by making a fool of themselves on the news (run and tell that!) lol. My point is a shortcut to being well is really just to get enough people to know who you are and make your opportunities from there. This is my rambly way of agreeing with you.
This is so true! I had an experience with a guy that was the brother-in-law of the VP. We started at the same time and passed right on by me up the ladder and never looked back. In fact one of our bosses said I got the guy promoted because he had me doing his work. I busted my tail to move up to equal with him but ended up two steps behind him. He drives a BMW now and I do agree with Springboard on not getting mad at people that have nice things I will be mad at this guy. When people work hard and have nice things it doesn't make me mad. It's the people that have nice things by knowing, blowing, or screwing. Many of those people would be more like the people they look down on if didn't "bride" their way in.
Great hub!! There is definately a difference between being deserving and being entitled and too many people at the bottom get them mixed up a little bit too often!
Hi, it's the same over here. it makes me so mad, recently there was a TV programme about housing, the fat rich stuck up snobby people were sitting there glaring at people who lived in council houses, saying in a very sarcastic manner, 'why don't you get a better paid job and then you can buy your own house' it never dawned on them that not everybody had the rich mummy and daddy they did! do they honestly think they would have got where they are today on their own? yeah right! got me going now! lol cheers nell
Fascinating hub. So, so, true!!!! Thank you.
Great hub. I really can't add to what has been said it. So true and unfortunate that the world is this way.
It is so true that often the connections in life (who you know) amount to more than just plain hard work. Guess that will always be the case. Some of those CEO salaries are beyond belief. But then the money that celebrities and athletes make can also be sky high. It is nice to see when they do something good with the money. I'm thinking of what Paul Newman did with his. Created a line of foodstuffs of which all of the proceeds go to charitable causes. Now, even after his death, this continues on to help others. Money can be used wisely and compassionately!
I've written a couple hubs re: Saving the middle class and corruption that are in line with your rant. You summed up all the points and certainly express your rage at the way things are. The solution is two fold in my opinion. 1-Governments have to get back to Governing.(and that would include Governing Greed and Power tripping) 2- There needs to be a ceiling on how much any one individual can be worth. (something crazy like max 100 Million. That would mean no more Billionaires)
Good Rant!
Great hubs.... and very informative, we learn something new everyday.....
Worthy reading. Cool hub.























































habee Level 7 Commenter 21 months ago
In the South, oftentimes it ain't WHAT you know, but WHO you know. Still, hard work should be rewarded, but that doesn't always happen in the US. Thumbs up!